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THE MOON SAID TO THE STARS. . .

3/5/2012

The moon said to the stars, do not look at my dark side for it is unseen by me, & unworthy of love

And the stars said, I see you darkness & light & love your contrasting nature.

Would it be love if I only loved the half that reflected my shining?

At a distance you only see my light. Come closer & know that I am you.

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Spring 2012 LOVE SALE

2/29/2012

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May I Share my Love with you? READ ON . . . for special offers & gifts. . .

I would love to offer you an individual (or series of) sessions this SPRING to manifest the life & lovelife of your dreams. I've seen peoples lives transform with as few as 3 sessions. Average is 9 months. Hey, your rebirthing your life right? Together we will commit to your dream and get you there!

SATISFIED CLIENTS SAY:

I was unclear whether to stay or go in my relationship. Francesca helped me clarify why I was there, what I had to learn, and how to enjoy it. ~ S. M

I never knew that how to be a healer without getting totally depleted. Now, I can have friendships and a growing client base with energy to spare. ~ S. S.

She has a sensuality, an gentleness that explains every thing so clearly. She is the whole package. ~ T. D.

We wanted to complete our relationship and stay close friends, yet we were angry. Francesca guided us through so gracefully. Each of us felt understood, and safe to speak our truth. Phew! We couldn't have done it without her. K. M & D.C.

She has a passion for studying the sacred path that we walk as individuals and a couple. Francesca has held us gently and with integrity when our process is coming from a very deep and wounded place. She has celebrated our successes. Thank you Francesca, your enthusiasm is contagious.
- P & M

SCHEDULE ME for your couple, your private practice, OR yourself. Sessions can include:
- Healing from Trauma
- Developing Fabulous Relationships
- Tantra Training
- Personalized Tantric Rituals (for couples - great for birthdays, anniversaries & special occasions)
- Power & Surrender Training (for couples)
- Shamanic Soul Retrieval to heal depression, confusion & clarify life path
- Shamanic Bodywork all the above PLUS bodywork
- PsychoTAROTpy Reading
- Empowered Intimacy Coaching
- Empowered Aging Coaching
- Mentoring on Being a Priest/ess of Eros; Bringing Sexual Healing to your relationships
- Mentoring on Being a Healer & Having a Healthy Love Life
- Mentoring on working with clients who have suffered abuse or trauma

EACH SESSION INCLUDES:

- clinical guidance on your biology & psychology
- spiritual insight into why these patterns keep appearing and how to transform them
- practical, simple, and powerful exercises to transform your life
- personalized prayers & affirmations
- resources to support your goals
- recovery of parts of you & your energy that have been lost, hidden, suppressed, or denied
- translation & mediation for the masculine & feminine within and without
- training in ancient techniques that empower a life you love

When in person:
- Appetizers
- Liquid Refreshment
- Candle lighting ceremony

SCHEDULE YOUR FIRST SESSION BY MARCH 21st and receive a personalized one card Tarot Reading. Value $39.95

LOCATION:
- The Sanctuary of The Heart Temple in El Cerrito (walking distance from the El Cerrito Del Norte BART)
- Your home (for an additional fee that includes gas/travel time)

FROM MARCH THROUGH APRIL for Phone &/or IN-Person:Please send me ALL the good days of the weeks AND times of the day for you.

SESSION LENGTH:
Unless otherwise agreed upon, sessions are 2 hours. **We can design weekly mentoring relationship by phone that is 30 minutes or 60 minutes.

PHONE:To Spring Start your life, I am available for PHONE SESSIONS at the sale price of only $69.95 per hour.
Usual Sliding Scale price: $75 to $175 per hour (individuals). $125 - $250 (couples).
HARDSHIP OFFER: If your spirit is called to work with me over-time but your a severely challenged in finances. Schedule a minimum of 3 sessions and let's discuss what you can afford.

In Person Sessions:To Spring Start your life, I am available for IN-PERSON sessions for only $84.95 per hour for individuals or couples.Usual Price: $99 - $180 per hour Sliding Scale. HARDSHIP OFFER: If your spirit is called to work with me over-time but your a severely challenged in finances. Schedule a minimum of 3 sessions and let's discuss what you can afford.

SERIES PACKAGE COACHING DISCOUNTS6 month Package (6 2-hour in-person sessions) - Save 15% (approx. $150 value) by paying for 6 sessions in advance!

9 month package (9 2-hour in-person sessions) - Save 25% (approx. $325 value) by paying for 9 sessions in advance!

Francesca Gentillé is an initiated shaman in 4 traditions, clinical sexologist, empowered aging specialist, and relationship counselor. She is the popular internet radio host of Sex: Tantra & Kama Sutra and co-author of the award-winning sex & relationship book "The Marriage of Sex & Spirit." Francesca is the co-director of the Integrative Arts Institute, and the founder of The Sacred Courtesan School of Feminine Mystique and Power.She is the creator of the village model of Shamanic Soul Coaching - reclaiming the treasures of spirit lost in the dark of trauma. CURRICULUM VITAE
http://www.lifedancecenter.com/cv.htmlSCHEDULE NOW TO RECEIVE YOUR FREE GIFT. EMAIL:RelationshipDiva@gmail.comMay you always realize the power of love,
Francesca

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Prostitute - Hooker - Priestess: What's the Difference?

2/27/2012

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There have always been levels of sex workers from the most artistic & cultured, the most healing & spiritual, the hidden mistress, and the sexually available vulva.

ARTISTIC & CULTURAL - THE COURTESAN
INSPIRES THE GENITALS, THE MIND, AND THE HEART

The Courtesan served the community of the nobility. She was often highly educated, and artistic. She was allowed to study, read, travel, and perform at a time period where wives were kept sheltered, and uneducated. This included the Hetearae of Ancient Greece, the Geishas of Ancient Japan, as well as the Courtesans of Medieval and Rennaisance Europe. (See film: Dangerous Beauty)

These women were the "stars" of their day. They set the fashions that other women copied. They were poets, singers, writers, politicos, and dancers. They wielded power & influence. They had patrons. They did not charge by the hour. A patron new that if he did not lavish her with money, and gifts that she would turn her attention elsewhere.

In some cultures, the men would pay court & homage to the Courtesan, and then contract with her for her upkeep and care. (See film: Gigi)

It was common knowledge that men married for social power and position. Their Courtesan was there to inspire their mind, and heart. Example: King Edward (Queen Victoria's son) had liasons with some of the most beautiful and famous women of that era. He would bring them to court and introduce them to his wife. He wanted her opinion and approval.

HEALING & SPIRITUAL - THE SACRED PROSTITUTE
INSPIRES THE GENITALS, THE MIND, THE HEART & THE SPIRIT; Heals the Life Force

The word Prostitute is from the Latin and means Pro-Stituare; To Stand In on Behalf of.

A secular prostitute would stand in on behalf of the wife, lover, or girlfriend; the absent, unwilling, or unavailable vulva. Or provide a desire for variety or experience.

A Sacred Prostitute would stand in on behalf of the divine. She was trained as a healer, sacred dancer, energy worker, and divine blessing.

In India she was called a Devidasi. In the Ancient MIddle East a Qadishtu. She was highly trained in what we might call the "Tantric Arts" of breath, energy, presence, and blessing.

Other names for her are Dakini, Tantrika, and Fire Woman.

There are tales going back 5000 years of men coming home from war and immediately going to the Temples so that they could be cleansed and transformed from the wounds of war to their spirit. Part of this process would be through touch and sexuality.

In some cultures young men would go to The Temple to be trained and initiated into the Arts of Love. So that they would be a divine lover for their wives.

The men would not pay the Sacred Prostitute directly, although he might give her a personal gift. What he would bring would be offerings to the temple.

THE HIDDEN MISTRESS:
INSPIRES THE GENITALS, THE HEART, and SOMETIMES THE MIND

The desire for variety of sexuality, as well as a longing to love more than one is common to many men and women.

In some ways The Mistress can be similar to The Courtesan in that it is often a longterm relationship. The man is a financial patron. Men who were/are wealthy enough to pay for the apartment and upkeep of a woman in addition to their wife, have a Mistress.

The man of wealth & power seeks something different than the prestige and security he receives from his wife. Depending on the man he may seek wit, challenge, greater sexual experience & adventurousness, passion, youth, and/or nurturance.

The men would usually pay for her room and board, clothes, and a stipend of cash. The agreement is to be available and on-call for him.

SEXUALLY AVAILABLE - THE PROSTITUTE - HOOKER - STREET WALKER - SEX WORKER INSPIRES THE GENITALS

A secular prostitute has traditionally been a woman who either enjoys sexual variety and diversity, enjoys servicing men, or has been forced to do so due to economic hardship, or entrapment.

The word Prostitute is from the Latin and means Pro-Stituare; To Stand In on Behalf of.

A secular prostitute would stand in on behalf of the wife, lover, or girlfriend; the absent, unwilling, or unavailable vulva. Or provide a desire for variety or experience.

Some secular prostitutes enjoy specializing or choose to specialize in:
- Dominating men (which may or may not include direct genital touch)
- Giving men anal sex
- Having genital sex
- Having anal sex
- Giving oral sex
- Giving massages that include a genital sexual release

In some cultures a young man would be taken to a secular prostitute to prove that he is a man. Some men would feel forced to do this, and uncomfortable with this exchange.

The men pay an hourly fee, and/or based on the type of sexual service.

SACRED COURTESAN: ARTISTIC, CULTURED, SPIRITUAL & HEALING
INSPIRES THE HEART, MIND, SPIRIT, AND BALANCING EROS

I teach an 8 month program called The SACRED Courtesan School for ALL women. It is about being the empowered divine feminine that catalyzes the best in men, women, and ourselves.

It is a training to bring healing to Eros - The Life Force. It includes the genitals but is not focused on them. Some women have used it to expand and deepen their profession as a sex worker. Many of the women use it to expand and deepen their own personal relationships.

I believe that each woman can be treated like a Queen, and can develop the capacity to call forth and sanctify The King in a man as High Priestesses of Love used to do.

May our soul lights & intimate lives shine,
Priestess

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2/27/2012

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